The incredible concert I recently attended by Ladysmith Black Mambazo sparked the inspiration for this month’s newsletter. Whether you’re facing challenges at work, navigating a job search, dealing with personal struggles, or feeling the weight of world events, it’s easy to become overwhelmed. One of their songs, “Tough Times Never Last, But Strong People Do,” offers a powerful reminder: even in the hardest moments, we can endure.
Strength can be built and sustained—physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Our mindset can either deepen the struggle or help guide us through it. And importantly, how we respond to difficult times not only shapes our own experience, but also influences those around us.
Ladysmith Black Mambazo rose to prominence during South Africa’s apartheid era, offering a message of hope, unity, and peaceful resilience through their music. Their influence reached even into prison cells—after his release in 1990, Nelson Mandela shared that their songs had been a source of strength and a symbol of peace during his imprisonment. In a powerful gesture of respect, when he received the Nobel Peace Prize in 1993, Mandela invited the group to join him at the ceremony—underscoring the profound impact of their message during one of history’s most difficult periods.
Tough times are an inevitable part of life’s cycles—and part of the human experience. How we respond to them is ultimately our choice. Stay strong, stay grounded, and hold on to hope.
Photo credit and link: Joe Mabel, Flickr via Creative Commons
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Below is an excerpt from my book to help people cope with the emotional roller coaster of the job search. Please share this and the link to complimentary excerpts which is after the reading. A great graduation gift of support!
“It really is an endurance race.”
-Henry Ford
A job search can take longer than you expect. Endurance is the ability to sustain a stressful effort. Since you don’t know how long your job search will take, it’s good to proactively build endurance like an athlete. Even if you are well into your search, there are practices and exercises to do to increase your mental stamina.
Consistency is the key in any performance training. Besides a routine of job search activities, create a routine of emotional self-care practices. Consider a morning warm-up such as an affirmation or prayer upon waking. Cool down your day with a gratitude list, meditation, or inspirational reading. Stay disciplined through the day by monitoring your thoughts to counter negativity. Develop patience with yourself and others. Like athletes, create a proactive plan to counter setbacks, like job rejections, so you don’t spiral down. Techniques to re-center could be saying a phrase like, “All will be well,” playing a song like, “I Will Survive,” or doing 30 seconds of slow, deep breathing.
You have or can develop what you need to endure and succeed. Rather than passive suffering through hardship, take proactive steps to increase your endurance.
Affirmation: I will take steps to sustain myself in the job search.
Beyond finding a job that you love, how can you bring love in the broadest sense to your current workplace or life? Practical advice comes from a Corinthians reading in the Bible where we are reminded that love is patient and kind, trusts and hopes; it is not boastful, easily angered or a record-keeper of wrongs. I was inspired this Valentine’s Day to share a bit about love after hearing the address at the end of the Buddhist “Walk for Peace” which concluded this week after a 109-day, 2300-mile journey that began in Texas.
The leader, Bhikkhu Pannakara, invited us make a difference with five seconds of mindfulness. He then shared insights for each of five attributes: Kindness, Compassion, Love, Harmony, and Hope. If you would like to hear this five-minute section of the address, CLICK HERE, and go to the 7 minute and 30 second point.
Here are the Buddhist words shared on Love:
Choose Love.
Love means children grow up safe.
Love means elders live with dignity.
Love means we do not turn away when someone is in pain.
Start with truly loving yourself. Start with that.
Love the person in front of you whether you know them or not.
That is how love creates a more loving world.
As a career counselor, I will share insights inspired by the Corinthians reading above. Love at work can mean….
…being patient with colleagues who make mistakes or are having a bad day
…speaking with kindness to all with whom you interact
…trusting those you supervise and not micromanaging
…having a positive attitude of hope rather than negativity
…not boasting of accomplishments and remembering to give others credit for ideas
…keeping anger in check and communicating respectfully about concerns
…addressing then letting go of past issues rather than keeping records in your mind
The Buddhist monk concluded that by our individual acts of love, kindness, compassion, harmony and hope, we can create peace and change for one person, one family, one community, one country and the world. And I will add: one workplace.
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Thanksgiving weekend got me thinking about the balance of joys and sorrows that we experience. It is a great joy to take my sister-in-law annually to State College, PA for a Thanksgiving visit with her son (my nephew) and family. This year they decorated for Christmas early, and I was captivated by the dozens of holiday photos of their two children. It brought me such joy, I took photos of them hoping I’d be inspired to share in a newsletter blog. The theme of joy is also on my mind as I prepare a Unity Center church talk for this Sunday on joy in recognition of December 7 National Joy Day. Make it a point to treat yourself to joy and spread joy!
Yet life is full of contrasts, and sorrow is a reality. Another Thanksgiving tradition of mine is to acknowledge the realities of our complex history with the Indigenous people of this land. Usually I do so with a monetary contribution and lately also with a resolve to learn more about our shared history.
This year, I watched the stunning 2024 National Geographic award-winning documentary, Sugarcane. It illuminates a community breaking cycles of generational trauma during an investigation into abuse and missing children at a nearby Indian Residential School run by the Catholic church. Although set in Canada, there have been 526 of these boarding schools identified in the United States established by the government and Christian churches in the 18th and 19th centuries. The history and purpose was to wipe out Indigenous culture and assimilate children into the dominate white culture, dramatically noted by Richard Henry Pratt founder of the Carlisle (PA) Indian Industrial School: “Kill the Indian in him and save the man.”
So you are not left in darkness, I offer some balance through one of my favorite poems by 14th century Persian poet Hafiz that encourages joy despite sorrow.
The Sacred Dance for Life by Hafiz
I sometimes forget that
I was created for joy
My mind is too busy
My heart is too heavy
Heavy for me to remember
that I have been
called to dance
the sacred dance for life
I was created to smile
to love
to be lifted up
and lift others up
O sacred one
Untangle my feet
from all that ensnares
Free my soul
That we might
Dance
and that our dancing
might be contagious.
Reflection: How might you lift others up in your career and in your life?
This autumn has caused me to reflect about the natural cycle of endings and beginnings. Around the time a close friend died, my neighbor had her baby and I attended my granddaughter‘s baby shower. What endings and beginnings are you experiencing? What are those that simply happened and those that you can or did create?
Perhaps you or someone you know are contemplating whether to end a job and look for a new one? Perhaps you’re contemplating retirement? Or thinking about what activities to bring into your life for more meaning? Decisions and new beginnings involve risk. It’s often easier to stay with what’s comfortable even if it’s not satisfying. Yet life is short. Time ticks away.
As we move into a season of gratitude and winter celebrations, appreciate what you have and look toward greater joy.
I’m happy to help as needed with career counseling. And no matter what your stage or age, poet Mary Oliver offers this reflective challenge:
“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” Mary Oliver,The Summer Day
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As I am in the midst of a very long-overdue bathroom renovation with dozens of decisions, I have renewed empathy for my career counseling clients. It doesn’t help that I’m a Libra; we are known for indecision. This has been an agonizing process for me. After narrowing down paint choices and going in for three samples, I came back with a dozen more paint chips. How could this happen? Whether you are weighing a job or career decision, or some other life decision, now or later, I thought you might enjoy a little insight into your own style. Of course, your style can vary and be a combination, but likely you lean toward one.
As an indecisive person, I thought it would be a win-win to research and present a program on the topic at my professional association. (Note: I’m much better at helping others with their decisions than making my own, so please do keep those referrals coming!) I’m going to share a bit from the handout I had created for distribution, and happy to send you the whole resource sheet upon request which also includes the “Help” sections. Right, that’s an important part, but the article would have been just tooooo looong!
The following five decision-making styles were identified by Susanne G. Scott and Reginald A. Bruce. Their work is known as the General Decision-Making Style model (CDMS) which includes a related inventory. Although it may appear that some styles are more positive than others, individuals could have positive outcomes regardless of the style. Typically career decisions are most grounded and less risky if they involve a balance of factual information and gut feelings.
Rational: Prefer to gather and analyze information systematically. Make logical and objective choices based on careful review of available information.
Potential Problem: Analysis Paralysis “I need more career information.” “I’m overwhelmed by the information.”
Intuitive: Prefer to rely on gut feelings and instincts. Make choices based on a quick, less structured assessment of the situation.
Potential Problem: Not grounded in information. “I thought this was what I wanted, then I learned this.” “The career wasn’t what I expected.”
Dependent: Tend to seek input and guidance from others. They may feel more comfortable relying on external support and opinions.
Potential Problem: Pleasing others rather than self. “My professor/supervisor thought I’d be good at this.” “What do you think I should do?”
Avoidant: Tendency to procrastinate or avoid making decisions altogether. May feel overwhelmed by decision-making and prefer to delay it.
Potential Problem: Ending up rather than choosing. “I need to choose a major next week.” “It’s ok I was let go since I didn’t like the job anyhow.”
Spontaneous: Typically make quick decisions without thorough analysis. May rely on their immediate reactions, acting on the spur of the moment.
Potential Problem: Going from one job/career to another. “I had to get out of that job/major, though it looked ok initially.” “I feel like a jack of all trades and no career path.”
I’m figuring you have guessed my style by now. A dear friend who has been on this agonizing bathroom renovation journey with me, sweetly joked: “Maybe in your next life you won’t come back as a Libra.”
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I had the joy this month of attending a concert by Herb Alpert and the Tijuana Brass. It’s a national tour that celebrates his 90th birthday and the 60th anniversary of the 1965 #1 hit album Whipped Cream. What I thought I wanted to write about was his sharing that when his 98-year-old sister asked “why in the world are you doing this”, he answered “it gives me energy.” Does YOUR work give you energy? What can you do to give yourself energy in general? For me, a big thing is dancing, so it’s been fun to enjoy dancing to A Taste of Honey again, like I did in my childhood game room.
Then I realized that so much about what Herb Alpert shared and what I additionally learned about him had the theme of SURPRISES. As a career counselor who helps people with career “planning,” it was a nice reminder that you just never really know. We can try to plan for the future, but sometimes life just unfolds.
Here are a few surprises and reflective insights:
-Just before the concert, I read that he is Jewish! How interesting that he picked up the trumpet at 8, fell in love with the music at bullfights in Mexico, and then introduced Latin-inspired music to the American public. REFLECTION: Anything is possible!
-He helped launch grammy-winner Brazilian musician Sergio Mendez through his company A&M Records in 1966. REFLECTION: Support others and authenticity.
-As a record producer, he turned down the eventual number one hit Louie, Louie. REFLECTION: Sometimes we make mistakes.
-His big breakthrough was the song Whipped Cream that trumpeter and band leader Al Hirt turned down. By the end of 1965 it was the best-selling album in the US, surpassing the Beatles, Rolling Stones and Frank Sinatra. REFLECTION: What is a good (career) fit for one person may not be good for another. And sometimes we get lucky.
-A Taste of Honey which won four Grammys in 1965was actually Side B of the original record. Herb Alpert convinced business partner Jerry Moss (who thought it was undanceable) to promote it based on audience reaction. REFLECTION: Listen to others, trust your instinct, and advocate for what you believe.
-I didn’t realize the beautiful abstract art slides during the concert were painted by him. He was a painter and sculptor since 1969, exhibiting in US, Europe and Asia. REFLECTION: We can move forward with talents in multiple directions. Honor where you are drawn to.
-Herb Alpert and his partner sold their A&M label to Polygram in 1990 for $500 million. He created the Herb Alpert Foundation that focuses on the Arts as well as Compassion and Well-being. REFLECTION: Main earnings may or may not come from core passion.
-While looking him up on-line, one of the suggested searches was inquiring about his “mental breakdown.” Indeed, it was the fall of 1969 when he had a dramatic moment of witnessing his unhappiness during a performance. It even affected his musicianship, and he entered many years of therapy.
“Nothing was more important to me than finding my path, finding why I’m here: ‘What’s my mission in life?’ It was not just to be a celebrity or a guy who sold a lot of records. I did that, and it was nice, but it wasn’t going to be my salvation. I was looking for my reason for being. I was willing to throw my horn into the ocean if that’s what it took to find out. It was a long and winding road. It took years before I felt like I used to feel.”
REFLECTION: Nothing is more important than one’s mental health and self-awareness.
As a self-described introvert, he is frequently referred to as kind and prizing unfettered imagination and heartfelt sentiment. I experienced him as unassuming and authentic. How would YOU like to be remembered?
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Sue seems ageless to me. She’s been my administrative assistant two days a month for 15 years now. At first, I thought Sue mostly wanted my very part-time work as a retirement income supplement. Then a couple years in, I learned that she found the work meaningful, helping me help people, a part of my two-person team. Wow, she was doing the work partly for the value of meaning, just like I encourage my clients. Does your contribution to the world bring you meaning, whether work, volunteering or family?
What can you do to keep you going? To keep things fresh? To keep you fresh?
Sue does just that and is an inspiration to me. She might not think so. She’s just been doing her thing. Church work, hosting weekly sing-a-longs, working out at the local community center. A long time effort has been her leadership in the Funeral Consumers Alliance of Western Pennsylvania, an affiliate of a national educational nonprofit offering funeral consumer support. Sue was on the board for almost ten years, including as Secretary and Treasurer. A couple of years ago at the age of 76, she stepped up to be President of the group during a major transition period. About two months ago, I saw the fall newsletter she wrote announcing activities, including the annual meeting. It was so professionally done, and it struck me that she was in essence running a business, this meaningful organization.
How lucky I’ve been to have had Sue’s talents all these years. I wanted to recognize her today on Administrative Professionals Day.
Who might you want to recognize and thank for the support and inspiration they’ve given you?
What keeps YOU going? What might you do to help make your days on this earth even more meaningful? If exploring a career change or retirement path, I’m happy to help.
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Whether chaos of career or country, it can signify a state before creation where something entirely new and yet unknown has the potential to emerge.
I’ve seen the chaos of COVID-19 cause people to re-examine values and make big time career changes. My hope is that the chaos of the country will cause kindness, compassion and deeper spiritual growth to emerge. Meantime, I take agency and action inspired from a place of love…in my family, community and country.
Taking action for career chaos or uncertainty may include self-reflection and career research; often working with a career counselor can bring some organization to randomly spinning thoughts.
As I have been contemplating the theme of chaos lately, I came across a blog post I made on January 12, 2021 following the January 6 attack on the US Capitol. Below is a brief excerpt of the article I quoted that may be applicable during these times.
A Speed of Soul Encouragement – Acknowledging Grief, Claiming Love, Remembering Radiance – Excerpt
By Carrie Newcomer, Artist/Musician, originally posted in www.DailyGood.org, January 9, 2021
“My encouragement today is to claim agency and to claim love. Text, zoom, call or somehow connect with someone who you think of as a treasure in your life, someone that illuminates your life, who reminds you of the power of love and the remembrance of radiance. Reach out and affirm what keeps saving us – goodness, kindness, faithfulness, gratitude, generosity, hospitality, justice and love…always love. Lay your hand on your heart and know that you also illuminate the lives of others around you. You are also doing what you can each day, in your own way, to make the world around you a kinder place.
Today we acknowledge the shadows, but we lean into the light.”
In closing from Karen: May you find some calm and creation in any chaos of career and country.
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“Uncertainty is the only certainty there is, and knowing how to live with insecurity is the only security.”
John Allen Paulos
So many unknowns can create negative emotions during your job search, such as waiting to hear back on an email or after an interview. There will be unexpected questions during an interview for which you can’t prepare. When you do get an offer, you may wonder whether to accept it or whether you’ll hit a land mine once there.
The reality is that life is filled with uncertainty, even when you have a job. Managing uncertainty is important so you don’t get lost in feelings of fear and speculation.
Focus on what you can control, such as your schedule and job search efforts. Keeping busy, whether with a class or house project can divert your mind from worry. If your mind goes into a negative “what if” spin, remind yourself, “I can’t possibly predict the future.” Another strategy is defensive pessimism; this is increasing your confidence with coping by imaging a worst-case scenario and planning for it, such as making peace with an option to downsize your home. Mindfulness and stress reduction are additional strategies. You can choose to let uncertainty keep you up at night or see it as a challenge for practicing acceptance.
Affirmation: I accept uncertainty as part of life and find ways to cope.
Copyright 2021, Karen Litzinger, Help Wanted: An A to Z Guide to Cope with the Ups and Downs of the Job Search. Permission is granted to share for non-commercial purposes with this entire notation, https://KarensCareerCoaching.com/help-wanted
My heart has been broken by the dismantling of the progress our country has made following our country’s second original sin of capturing and enslaving Africans (the first being genocide of the indigenous original inhabitants of this land). President Trump “officially recognized” Black History Month just a couple weeks after signing executive orders in his first week ending federal programs related to diversity, equity and inclusion and reversing executive enforcement of civil rights laws. This came about the same time as the Department of Defense announced it would no longer recognize months related to cultural identities.
Such has been the fear of government employees about the DEI executive order, that employees at a national museum in DC rushed to cover up displays featuring women and people of color, later rectifying it and recognizing it as a mistake in an effort to comply.
So I am honoring Black History month by stating my concerns in this piece, by highlighting accomplishments of our African American/Black citizens, and by sharing lists of films, books and events to enlighten and educate (see immediate previous blog). My words and message may be imperfect, but comes from my heart.
Sample of Black History Career Accomplishments
As a career counselor, I love learning about and being inspired by people and their work. In honor of Black History month, I want to share an eclectic sampling. Some individuals I highlight are a shout out and some are more obscure. I wanted to go beyond contemporaries like President Obama, Michael Jordan, and Maya Angelou and famous names like Martin Luther King, Rosa Parks and Harriet Tubman. I’m not including the many artists, activists and athletes in this list, but they are in the exploration links at the end.
George Washington Carver (1860-1943)
Renowned for his innovative agricultural research and advocacy for sustainable farming.
Thurgood Marshall (1908-1993)
First Black appointee to the U.S. Supreme Court
Katherine Johnson (1918-2020)
Black mathematician whose NASA work was crucial in the success of the first American-manned spaceflight
Mae Jemison (b. 1956)
First black woman to travel into space aboard the Space Shuttle Endeavour in 1992
Benjamin Banneker (1731–1806)
Almanac author, surveyor, and self-taught polymath who gained recognition for his work in astronomy and surveying the boundaries of the newly designed capital US Capitol.
Madam C.J. Walker (1867-1919)
First female self-made millionaire in America building her fortune on a line of beauty and hair products for Black women.
Thomas L. Jennings (1791–1859)
The first African American U.S. patent recipient in 1821, inventing a process for dry-cleaning delicate clothing known as “dry-scouring.”
Alice H. Parker (1895-death unknown)
1919 patent for central heating furnace design that made use of natural gas for the first time to keep homes warm
George Washington Carver (1860-1943)
Renowned for his innovative agricultural research and advocacy for sustainable farming.
Patricia Bath (1942-2019)
First black female doctor to receive a medical patent when she invented a laser cataract treatment device in 1986.
For more inspiration and awareness, see links below:
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The last few years, I’ve started a tradition of watching a film during Black History month that educates, inspires and often challenges me about our country’s racial history. I have been moved beyond words by the fabulous films, Eyes on the Prize (about Martin Luther King) and Good Trouble (about Congressman John Lewis). Last weekend I watched Selma which was about the campaign to secure equal voting rights led by Martin Luther King. Each movie gave me an important shock. In Selma, it was the vision of those four young black girls being killed by a bomb as they were walking down the stairs of their church; and also the sanctioned police brutality of attacking marchers on the Pettus bridge on horseback while white onlookers cheered on. In my head was: THIS HAPPENED DURING MY LIFETIME! We so are NOT past racism and racial reckoning. And sadly, we are moving backwards.
I’m less of a reader, but will share that the book Waking Up White was a powerful, moving read. This may be small, but I was impacted by the story of how a black person felt like they couldn’t take the garbage out wearing a bathrobe to not create a negative impression, while we white people would think nothing of it. A small example of every day white privilege that I think of often.
Of course, there are many events each year to celebrate Black History Month. Since we are mid-month, the list in the links below will have some old ones. One more related to African roots is what I’ll be attending on March 23. If you like singing, drumming and dancing, check this out: https://www.pittsburghyouthchorus.org/thula-sizwe
What might you put on your movie, reading and event list to add meaning to your life and to support understanding our shared history? See some ideas in links below.
You’ve probably been asked the question at some point: What public figure do you most admire? Though there are so many admirable choices over centuries, I always came back to contemporaries, Fred Rogers and Jimmy Carter. On the one month marking of President Carter’s death, I want to share some tidbits that struck me as I listened to stories about this man of character, service and intellect.
But first, my connection to his warmth and authenticity began in 1976 when I heard him speak at my hometown Beaver Valley Mall the summer before my senior year in high school. I was so inspired that I did phone banking for his campaign that fall. Fast forward to 2018, I made a pilgrimage to Plains, Georgia to hear him give a Sunday School talk before church, which he’s done for decades and attracted people from many states and countries. At the end of the talk, he asked everyone to commit to reaching out to someone in need in the next month, even a small act of calling someone who is lonely. This experience is one I’ll always treasure.
My tribute in tidbits:
The first story I heard on the day of President Carter’s death was from a Fox News correspondent, David Spunt, who recalled from his 2009 interview how humble, informal and well-read President Carter was. Carter even researched the background of the 20-something reporter. They stayed in touch, and President Carter sent a signed book for him on upon the birth of his daughter.
In a 2002 rebroadcast from the PBS presidents’ biography series, I learned the tidbit that he said he didn’t want a presidential library as a monument to himself. He sat up in the middle of the night with the idea of using the center as a place for conflict resolution, saying yes to that.
During Vice President Kamala Harris’ eulogy at the Capitol, she recounted that “on their first trip for Habitat for Humanity, Jimmy and Rosalynn rode the bus with the other volunteers. And when the group stopped for the night to stay at a local church, Jimmy and Rosalynn gave their private room to a young couple who had put off their honeymoon to join the trip. And with the other volunteers, they then slept on the floor of the church basement.”
Phillip Kurland who had newly moved to Plains opening a souvenir shop wondered if the Carters really lived in Plains. Much to his surprise the Carters came in to his little shop to welcome him as it was being set up. As a good friend, he commented on Carter’s intellect and sharpness into his 90’s: The ABC10 local news story about this noted: My biggest dream is to come up with a topic that I could know more than him and I’ll bring something up and within two minutes my head is spinning, Kurland said. He makes me feel like… wow, I didn’t do my research.
A nod toward their basic living: He and Roslyn still washed and reused their plastic storage bags.
Someone recounted that they were aware from the Camp David talks, President Carter was so well researched that he knew the populations of villages in Israel and Egypt.
One story noted that a natural struggle for anyone in power (and think was said for him) was the balance of power and humility. Likely his strong spiritual faith helped him with this.
His favorite bible verse was: “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32 (NIV)
Last week I stumbled on the magazine, a Life commemorative edition, Jimmy Carter: A Noble Life. Of course, I bought it. I’m sure there will be many more interesting tidbits to learn, but I want to share quite a synchronicity that at the end of the night on Monday, January 20, I decided to resume my reading. The next article up? His inauguration speech.
Some of his speech was specific to the times, so I am choosing to share these two paragraphs that show insight to his spirit:
“You have given me a great responsibility – to stay close to you, to be worthy of you, and to exemplify what you are. Let us create together a new national spirit of unity and trust. Your strength can compensate for my weakness, and your wisdom can help to minimize my mistakes.
Let us learn together and laugh together and work together and pray together, confident that in the end we will triumph together in the right.”
I’m well aware of President Carter’s flaws, described by himself and others. He could be impatient, stubborn and micromanage details. And, of course, he was not good at dealing with the Washington DC politics, almost disdaining it….which didn’t help in navigating his presidency. I think history will mark his presidency more favorably than now, and it is hard to imagine his post-presidency achievements ever surpassed.
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Post script For Myers-Briggs Type Indicator aficionados: I will share that after several books, CDs, and documentaries, I am going against already diverse public opinion and posit that his personality type is an INTJ: Introverted (the one I’m less sure of; going with this both because ENTJ’s are more forceful and this also is connected to his intense reading and science/submarine background); Intuitive (love of learning, ideas and reading, even though he also likes carpentry); Thinker (strong logic orientation; don’t let his service values trick you into the “Feeling” personality category); and Judgement (this doesn’t mean judgmental, but passion for having things decided, ordered and done).
More than anything, I think Jimmy Carter exemplifies a “renaissance man” which is why his personality is so hard to pin down.
INTJ descriptor: Have original minds and great drive for implementing their ideas and achieving their goals. Quickly see patterns in external events and develop long-range explanatory perspectives. When committed, organize a job and carry it through. Skeptical and independent, have high standards of competence and performance – for themselves and others.
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Like in the movie, It’s a Wonderful Life,” we often don’t know the impact of our presence. This could be with work, family or friends. Sometimes it’s just small and special.
I missed seeing Christine’s smiling face at the Residence Inn this Thanksgiving morning. She greeted us multiple times during our annual visit to State College relatives. The first year, she invited guests to write what they were grateful for on cut-outs of autumn leaves and vegetables and posted them in the eating area. I loved this! So much so that I took a photo.
Then she remembered us after that, bringing out the gratitude messages that she saved.
When I didn’t see Christine this Thanksgiving morning, I was going to dig out her photo and ask about her at the front desk. I was a bit worried. To my happy surprise, she was there on Friday morning and greeted me with a hug like family. She had the holiday off. Good for her!
We reminisced a bit about the past gratitude project, then she disappeared into the kitchen for a bit while I talked to a longer-term resident she befriended. Christine came back with a photo of the two of us on her phone and shared that the Thanksgiving gratitude messages were still hanging up back in the kitchen. How cool!
I asked how she was doing, and with a bright smile, she said “awesome.” I told her, of course, that is because her attitude is awesome. Christine went on to say she loves her job, and meeting the people is what makes it special. That reminded me of why I love my work….as a career counselor I get to help others find something they might love…or at least like.
May this little holiday story remind us that we touch everyone we come into contact with. May we remember to share warmth and kindness with our presence and with our actions. And may this positive energy help spread light during dark times.
“Each man’s life touches another.” It’s a Wonderful Life
I chose to celebrate my 65th birthday last month on a private retreat with my 23 year church group at the Benedictine Sisters of Erie Monastery. You may have heard of them in the news lately with the fraudulent claim that no one lives there. Besides such a meaningful retreat reflecting on my “next chapter,” I was heartened to learn of the beautiful leadership prayer by Sister Joan Chittister, which the sisters prayed together multiple times a day. Our country needs all the prayers and good wishes it can get. Among other things this week, I pray for peaceful and safe elections and more civility.
“Give us, O God, leaders whose hearts are large enough to match the breadth of our own souls and give us souls strong enough to follow leaders of vision and wisdom.”…
Sister Joan Chittister, Benedictine Sisters of Erie
CLICK HERE for the rest of the Prayer for Leadership
CLICK HERE for monastery response to voter fraud claim
CLICK HERE for video of conversation with Republican Liz Cheney and Sister Joan Chittister
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