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Forgiveness is for You!
Is there a co-worker or client who treated you poorly? Or a supervisor who passed you over for a promotion? Or perhaps you were terminated from your job and still feeling resentment or anger? Whether in work or personal life, the act of forgiveness is for you, to set you free of resentment and bondage. Not forgiving someone or an institution gives them power over you. It can affect you emotionally, mentally and physically. In the job search, the emotions of resentment or victimhood can seep out, including during networking attempts. On your job, the negative emotions may contaminate the good work you do and impact your progress as well as your happiness.
Forgiving isn’t excusing poor behavior or seeing it as acceptable. Ask yourself if reliving or holding on to the past is helpful to you. You can choose to forgive someone directly or within your heart.
If you feel a barrier to forgiveness, consider this alternative affirmation (by Anthony Diaz from the December 2018 Guide for Spiritual Living) to release your pain and open space for more positive things in your life:
May this season of Light bring you insight to forgive and begin the year with more Lightness.
Fred Rogers: A Model of Kindness
Give yourself the gift of inspiration this season with A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood movie. With so much incivility in society and in the workplace, Fred Rogers provides a muchneeded model of kindness. This drama has meaning and depth, eliciting both laughter and tears. It is based on the true story of Fred Rogers helping a jaded magazine writer overcome his skepticism and learn about kindness and forgiveness. Don’t just take it from me; Rotten Tomatoes gave the movie a 95% positive rating.
A friend of mine initially thought she didn’t want to see it since she already saw the documentary and didn’t want to see anyone but Fred play Fred. But Tom Hanks did a masterful job once he mastered slowing down his fast-paced style to Rogers almost overly thoughtful and slow-paced style. It is a chance to see how Fred Rogers was in real life with adults, including a behind the scene view of comedy and conflict on the studio set. Plus there are some clever artistic elements thrown in.
As a bit of a Fred Rogers geek, I loved reading the articles and seeing the interviews leading up to the movie. Here is a link to the original 1998 Esquire Magazine article written by Tom Junod, which is the inspiration of the story. Significant parts of the article are reflected in the movie, including a scene where adults and children of all ages on a subway broke out into spontaneously singing It’s A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood.
More interesting background is this University of Pittsburgh article about how Fred Rogers was influenced and mentored by child psychologist and Pitt faculty member, Margaret McFarland.
Here is a link to Fred Rogers quotes from my last article about him: What Would Mister Rogers Do?
What Are You Going to Create Today? Plus a Birthday Story.
I was graced with the creative gifts of my church friends at my 60th birthday dance party. They crowned me Dancing Queen and serenaded me with personalized lyrics to that song, preceded by a memorable poem about me.
What creativity might be in you to be manifested, whether in your career or personal life?
After their gift, I shared a favorite song by Motown artist, Eddie Watkins, Jr. that speaks to creativity and enthusiasm for life.
“What are we gonna create today?
The universe is ready to play.
Spirit surely will lead the way.
Just say Yes.”
The lyrics are from his song, “I’m going to Say Yes to Life.” Eddie has recorded with Marvin Gaye, James Brown, Diana Ross, the Pointer Sisters, among others.
What might you be ready to say Yes to? If you would like to explore more career enthusiasm and creativity, I’d love to help.
I enjoyed creating my birthday party, “Dancing through the Decades with Karen.” From Dancing in the Moonlight on the back deck to a grand finale of Katy Perry Firework with sparklers, creativity sparked my energy.
Inspired treats were a Buy Local theme, featuring products from the Swissvale Farmers Market and four Swissvale restaurants.
Related to the buy local theme of my party, I stumbled on beautiful mandala products the week before at a Mind Body Spirit Fair, and purchased four lovely coasters with quotes on the back. Artist, Mara Carlini, shared that her art came from creating a mandala for her wedding for guests to sign. From experiencing the powerful energy of the messages in her home, she was inspired to create pieces infusing them with specific intentions during the creation process.
I met another inspiring artist during my 60th birthday vacation retreat on Lake Erie in Cleveland. Walking into the warehouse-sized Waterloo 7 Studio/Gallery, I felt I was in another world. Jerry Schmidt takes used materials and recycles them into mind blowing, often larger than life sculptures. Jerry told me he was drawn to this work from seeing his father only be happy when he was in his artist studio. He shared that instead of going to bed concerned about troubles, he drifts off thinking about creative art possibilities.
My Air BnB vacation spot was hosted by Cindy Barber, owner of Beachland Ballroom in the Waterloo Arts District of Cleveland. Another creative visionary. After big unhappy changes at her employment, Cindy purchased an old Croatian club in 2000 where she cofounded this music venue that hosts performers from across the country on a daily basis. This was the cornerstone of rejuvenating a section of Cleveland, creating this arts district. It was during a monthly Walk All Over Waterloo that I met Jerry Schmidt and many other artists. Cindy’s made a real difference in her community.
What might you like to create in your career, your community, your life? I’d love to help you explore your passions and talents.
As for me….I’m excited about the next decade and saying YES to life!